Choosing where and how to live as we get older is one of the most important lifestyle decisions we can make. For many, it represents a balance of independence, safety, wellness, and connection. While some people may feel most comfortable staying at home, others thrive with the support and community that supportive living options offer. Understanding the choices available helps to find the just-right fit for this next chapter of life.
aging in place or supportive living communities
Deciding between aging in place and moving to a supportive living facility involves weighing personal preferences, health needs, finances, and social factors. Both offer different factors to consider.
defining the two
- aging in place: aging in place means staying in your own home as long as possible to maintain independence and familiar surroundings, but it can come with challenges like home maintenance, safety risks, and the need for increasing care and social support
- supportive living facility: supportive living communities offer maintenance-free living with support, medical care, and social activities, providing safety and assistance while adapting to changing care needs, though they may involve higher costs and less privacy
elements to keep in mind
- health status and care needs: are you managing well independently, or is daily assistance becoming necessary?
- home environment: is your home safe and easy to modify for mobility and accessibility?
- social support: do you have strong local connections, or would community living offer more social engagement?
- financial resources: what are the costs of home modifications, in-home care, and maintenance compared to supportive living fees?
- personal preferences: which environment feels more comfortable and fulfilling for lifestyle and emotional well-being?
To learn more, check out this book by Carol Chiang, Age in Place or Find a New Space: How to Create Beautiful Spaces that Promote Meaningful Interactions.
supportive living community options available
Supportive living is not one-size-fits-all. Depending on health, lifestyle, and personal goals, there are several choices that provide varying levels of independence and support.
- active adult communities: for active older adults that desire maintaining an independent lifestyle and community amenities, and is distinct from other supportive living options as it does not typically provide bundles services, healthcare, or meals
- independent living communities: designed for active older adults looking to keep their independence and privacy, while enjoying maintenance services and personal care amenities to make life easier
- assisted living communities: daily support for adults that don’t require 24/7 skilled nursing care, but receive assistance such as meals, medication management, and personal care
- memory care facilities: specialized residential settings providing 24/7 care, supervision, and activities for individuals living with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia
- skilled nursing home: provides 24/7 medical care and rehabilitative services for residents
- continuing care retirement communities: offer a blend of services, allowing residents to transition to higher levels of care as needed
To learn about ways that you can still provide caregiving and stay connected from afar, check out this blog post.
decide on which supportive living community
The right choice depends on individual needs, health, goals, and lifestyle preferences. It’s important to evaluate both current circumstances and future possibilities to avoid making a rushed decision during a crisis.
factors to consider
- current health and potential future medical needs
- level of independence versus support required
- financial resources and long-term budget
- desire for social interaction and community activities
- proximity to family and trusted healthcare providers
To learn more, check out this book by Pooja Patel, You Don’t Know When The Bridge Is Coming: A Roadmap For Family Caregivers
check out the facilities
Once you have narrowed down your options, touring and evaluating specific communities or care providers is the next step. Start with 3-5 facilities to tour. Firsthand visits and conversations with staff and residents can provide valuable insight into daily life and quality of care.
additional components to look for
- clean, safe, and welcoming environment
- friendly, attentive, and experienced staff who engage with residents
- clear information about costs, contracts, and services included
- variety of programs, dining options, and wellness resources
- positive reviews or testimonials from current residents and families
To hear more about deciding on a just-right fit, check out this podcast episode with Dawn Marie Johnson.
resources
- National Council on Aging – Provides online tools that help older adults find information on affordable housing options
- SeniorLiving – A searchable directory of senior living communities, free helpline to connect with knowledgeable advisors, and informative guides on transitioning to senior living
- The Aging Together Caregiver Hub – Online community to support, educate, and connect you with others on this journey
- SafetyGrip by Hartmobility – Check out our sponsor and create a home that’s safe for you!
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At Aging Together, we are dedicated to helping you navigate aging together. This blog page is for everyone: whether you are an older adult looking to age in place, a caregiver seeking support and guidance, a young or middle-aged adult planning for the future, or simply someone interested in learning more about the aging process. I hope you’ll join me on this journey. Let’s navigate aging, together.